I hate spiders.

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Anyone else here hates spiders

like I do. That is my kryptonite. Well…

That and sourdough bread. I am

powerless against good sourdough bread.

Smile gang, we get to try one more time.

Jose G. Osuna

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A Walk Of Perspective.

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If you want to see just how small

our problems really are go for a walk

on the mountains.

Talk about getting some perspective.

This picture was taken somewhere

up in the Arizona mountains. NE of

Phoenix. I know that my mind was

heavy with issues and this trip help

me get some perspective.

Things will happen and how we react

will have a huge impact on everything.

I know my reactions have affected my

health, emotional stability, stress levels,

and so much more that I, and you should

know better but it don’t always works that way.

I guess what I am trying to tell you gang

is that in order to protect ourselves and

so be able to be the best we can be,

we must “kind of” stop every now and then.

Think before reacting.  And yes some times

Shut The Heck Up.

Gang let us do the best we can for all but

specially for ourselves.

Jose G. Osuna

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If you have a literary itch that

needs scratching THIS IS IT!!!!

Nanowrimo is starting this November 1st.

Get ready and get going.

Lots of acclaimed novels and movies

have been direct result of Nanowrimo.

If you have it share it. We will all be

better for it.

Jose G. Osuna

On Fear.

FB_IMG_1471821419202Now you know what I am afraid of.

The other thing I am afraid of is

being unsuccessful in life.

We all have deep fears and we must

be in control in order to avoid emotions

from over-running our lives.

Make plans and evaluate them often.

Set goals and adjust them as needed.

Stay in control and make some stuff happen.

Jose G. Osuna

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On Life And Walks.

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Where have your walks taken you lately???

This is a bridge across the Colorado River.

One side is California the other is Arizona.

A great walk and some good pictures.

Remember there is no rule against you

enjoying your walk and finding things to

admire and commit to memory.

Enjoy the process and enjoy the benefits.

Stay focus remain successful.

Jose G. Osuna

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Stand UP.

719d11589fd33e959bdd4b817a0610e0Many a time we must fight

against others preconceived notions.

We must stand resolute in the fact

that we know what works for us and

more importantly the Why we do

what we do.

Continue to push forward with your

goals and dreams in mind.

The results good or bad are our own.

Gang. Stay focus remain successful.

Jose G. Osuna

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Super Friends

Female super heoes

Most of the most supportive persons

in my life have been females and

that makes them my Super Heroes.

I have been lucky in that some great

people have taken an interest in me

and for that I am and will forever be

grateful.

Find someone who has made a difference

in your life and thank them.

Find someone you can make a difference

for and do something for them.

Be a friend. A Real Friend.

Jose G. Osuna

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Surprise!!!

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Has it happen to you?

As you cruise down the road of life

feeling that you have it all under control

when suddenly Whamooo there is life

throwing you a curveball.

It happens when we suddenly look at

the number on the scale and we get

a bit of a reality check.  OR

when we look at our bank balance only

to find that we have way too much month

at the end of the money. Anyway.

Surprises are just a breath away so we

must prepare in as much as we can for

those moments and take the teeth out

of their bite. NO we can not stop them

but we can prepare ourselves for them.

I do not know you personally but this I

can tall you about you:

You know what your situation is and

you know what your needs and wants are.

You know what your strengths are and also

your weakness so Deal With It. Deal With You.

Gang take care of business take care of you.

Stay Focus Remain Successful.

Jose G. Osuna

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LOVING AND SUPPORTING OURSELVES

LOVING AND SUPPORTING OURSELVES

The weight loss race is a lonely one.
In the end it is just me, my self and I making the decisions of what and how much to eat.
It is just me, my self and I making sure the goal is ever-present. Me, myself and I arguing over are we or are we not going for our walk today, me, myself and I fighting over are we working out or not.
It sounds as if this was all we ever thought of but it is more what we do all day long that keeps reminding us of the goal. When we have to walk for any distance and we are winded. When we try to play with our kids and we lack the strength or stamina. When our work requires us to fly places and we face the 1 inch by 1 inch seat in the plane. When we look at the assortment of pills we have to take every day. It is all of those things that keep our goal constantly present in our days.
It is a desire and the hope for a better tomorrow that motivates us.
It is that form of self-love that gives us the strength to try again and again.
Sometimes the people around us do not see the why and lovingly share their thoughts and concerns and we just want to lovingly put their heads under water for just a couple of days.
Yes it was a joke but see how you smiled? That is the approach we need to take to the negative comments. The inconsiderate looks and stares. Laugh it off and keep on keepin’ on.
Keep winning the little battles. The battles with the fork, the battles with the bed in the early morning, the screaming matches with the bathroom scale, and the cold war with the mirror.
Keep winning the little battles and eventually you will reach your goal and win the war.
Let’s love ourselves more. Let’s support ourselves more. Let’s believe in us more.

Jose G. Osuna

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At the end of the day.

174.JPGWhen the day has come to an end we get the chance

to ask ourselves “Did I Do All I Could Have??”

Did I made this day, week, month count?

Our answer to this very basic question will undoubtedly

give us a rather close look at what life will be and do

for us all. We are the masters of our destiny and

the daily building of our life is largely affected by those

small and seemingly unimportant or inconsequential

little choices, little decisions.

The phrase “Digging your grave with your

knife and fork” comes to mind.

This blog and most of what we talk about here

is about weight loss so we really should keep

ever-present the impact of our decisions.

We need to know and keep present that it matters,

that it all matters when it comes to our lives and

dreams and goals.

Keep fighting the good fight and eventually success

will knock at our door.

Big Mo as Darren Hardy call it on The Compound Effect.

All the best to you all gang.

Jose G. Osuna

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Barbados.

Isla De Barbados

I took this picture while on a trip to Barbados.

I have traveled to every state in the USA and every state

in my country of Mexico with visits to Central America

and up and down the Caribbean. I am yet to find a place that

I connected to as I did with Barbados. The minutes and seconds

I spent there were perfect. This is the one place that

almost every day I think of and would want to go there

more than anywhere else in the world.

I just loved it there. Had great company and the weather

was amazing. The food was amazing. It was amazing.

I hope you are ready to start your new year and that you

have included in your goals some travel.

It is not about far or exotic but about new and

exciting.  Gang go do it and enjoy your days and your

meals. Life is worth it. Now go live it.

Jose G. Osuna

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WRITE!!!!

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Gang… Writing is not about a novel or a treaty.,

writing is about making connections and getting

things off your chest and mind.

Writing is not about making a million dollars

even though that would be nice right????

Gang I am taking a little of your time to mention

that we are about to hit November 1st. and for some

of us that means that NaNoWriMo is about to start.

Nanowrimo is a contest/community/challenge

for writing and aspiring writers to bring out and

create new materials.

If you fancy yourself a writer and just to clear I do not

think of me as a writer. Actually my English is not really

that good being that Spanish is my native language.

Gang Nanowrimo is a great opportunity for anyone who

has a writing itch that needs to be scratched.

If you want to learn more about this visit:

nanowrimo.org and see all that is there.

There are many, many resources that could help

you grow and learn about writing and the possibilities

for you and your thoughts and ideas.

Hope this of service to you.

Jose G. Osuna

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Have You Hugged Your Hater?

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So True!!

But they are the first ones to bring up the

failures and mistakes carefully leaving out

how they were never of help or assistance.

They were there they were just not there

for us.

It is ok. That did not and, does not keep us

in the hole. The hole of being broke, overweight,

sick, alone.

I just love the face of disgust as the haters see

us doing better. So great to piss them off

as they have to be there and see us be what

we all along knew we could be. Just an extra

fringe benefit since we did and continue to

do things for us and not for them.

Gang go out there and kill it every day.

make every day count and when you are

tired and ready to go home…. Do another set

as you think of the haters that will get a

belly ache when they see you next time.

It is MONDAY!!!!

Fuck It. Do It. Enjoy It.

Jose G. Osuna

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